YOUR Social Media Reputation Mistakes?

Social media has transformed the world as we know it. It keeps us connected to friends and family and brings humor into our lives when we need it most. But like anything, there can be a dark side to social media — and it is often misused by people, wittingly or unwittingly..

Ten Harvard students lost their admission to the respected school because of offensive memes they were posting on a group chat page. While most of us might not go that far, there are things we should beware of posting on social media. The wrong meme or tweet could cost us important relationships or tarnish our reputations.

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What are five common mistakes people make on social media that can hurt their relationships with others?

1. Airing Your Dirty Laundry For Others To See

If you're having problems with your partner, be respectful and discuss them directly with your partner! If you're venting on social media, it makes things awkward for your friends and gives people lots to gossip about.

2. Posting Anything Negative

People make judgments quickly on social media. I recently saw someone post the following, "Angry AF today." If you're single and people get the feeling you're negative or a Debbie Downer, they're going to think twice before setting you up with their friends.

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3. Vaguebooking — Posting Something Borderline Hostile That Is Pointed At One Person

For example, "I wish that if someone had something that they wanted me to know, they would tell me to my face instead of behind my back." This makes you look petty and passive-aggressive.

4. Posting Private Or Negative Things About Your Kids

In other words, "too much information" that would embarrass them. I see some parents using Facebook as a zone to talk ALL about their kids (good, bad or intimate), with details their kids probably wouldn't want shared.

Always ask your child if they mind you posting something or a particular photo. Even at their young ages, they will have strong opinions. Respect your kids' privacy and wishes, and you'll preserve their trust for years to come.

5. Tagging Your Friends In Old Photos

I hear people complain about this all of the time. They don't want old high school photos tagged and showing up in people's news feeds. It's embarrassing to some people and they'd rather leave those memories in the yearbook. If you feel the need to post an old photo, ask people's permission before you tag them.

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6. Arguing On Facebook

In today's super-charged political environment, people feel entitled to rant and tear others down in social media posts. It's easy to go back and forth with comments, while the hostility builds rapidly. You are NOT going to change someone's mind by arguing your point. The collateral damage is that you will look like "that" person who is ... Crazy.

7. Posting Photos You'd Be Embarrassed If Your Boss Or Family Saw

In today's world, you are one screen shot away from going viral (and even losing your job). Keep your social media posts "social" — and keep your photos appropriate. If you wouldn't want your mom or boss to see the photos, the world doesn't need to see them either.

Guest Authored By Bela Gandhi. Bela is a Top Dating/Relationship Coach and Social Media Personality. She's the founder and president of Smart Dating Academy. Follow Bela on Twitter.

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Your personal brand is affected by your social media posts, even if the people know you well.

Use it to connect with people, be positive and share inspiration.

Do not use it for dark, negative or downright crazy posts.

Follow these rules, and you should keep your relationships on the up and up, and your reputation crisp and clean!

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  Authored by:

  Fred Hansen Pied Piper of Social Media Marketing at YourWorldBrand.com & CEO of Millennium 7 Publishing Co. in Loveland, Colorado. I work deep in the trenches of social media strategy, community management and trends.  My interests include; online business educator, social media marketing, new marketing technology, skiing, hunting, fishing and The Rolling Stones..-Not necessarily in that order ;)

Being Smart On Social Media Refresher?

It's not just your friends checking your social media accounts.

Did you know that many employers and colleges are now viewing your accounts?

Being smart on social media may seem like a no-brainer to many, but every now and then we all need a reminder of smart choices when posting, sharing, tweeting and snapping.

Alyse Eady interviewed Double R Communications Professionals President and CEO, Reggie Roberts about the "do's and dont's" of social media.

Reggie Roberts was an NFL communications executive for 29 years. In that role, he advised players about their use of social media. In addition to his expertise in communications and football, he is also the father of two teenage sons and is aware firsthand of the mistakes many teenagers and young adults make when using social media. His key tips are below.

10 Things You Should Never Post Online, provided by Double R Communications, Reggie Roberts

1. Personal Conversations

• It's Inconsiderate
• It's Bad Form
• It's Rude

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2. Relationship Issues

• You guys are in high school. You break up and make up seven times per day and that's all before 3rd period!!!
• No need to discuss and broadcast your personal drama for all the world to see.

3. Personal opinions about teachers, coaches, administrators, or your playing time (or lack thereof)

• Complaining about authority figures screams immaturity.
• Take the high road.
• Set up a meeting with the person you have an issue with.

4. Pictures of You Doing Drugs or Drinking Alcohol.

• There is a rumor swirling about in cyberspace about potential employers or college recruiters routinely checking the social media sites of prospective student athletes. 
• NEWS FLASH!! -- IT'S NOT A RUMOR!!

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5. Nudity

No matter how beautiful or hot you think you are, the whole world doesn't need to see you in the buff.

• Do us and yourself a favor -- resist the urge to be photographed without your clothes.

6. Classified Information

• Posting your cell number, your home number, your home address, and SSN's online = IDENTITY THEFT!!
• Be smart - don't be a victim.

7. Your Money

• You Are Rich.& Your parents Are Rich. Congratulations.
• Thank the good Lord for your good fortune and shut up about it. 
• It's business.

8. TMI - Too Much Information

• Please do us all a favor and spare us the details.

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9. Work That's Not Copyrighted

• You have just come up with a brilliant idea that could make you a millionaire. You then post your idea on Facebook (without copyrighting it) only to have it stolen by someone else who runs with your idea and copyrights it as his own while you are at the beach.
• Keep your mouth shut about what you are working on, and get your ideas patented or copyrighted.

10. Embarrassing Or Inappropriate Pictures

• The moment you post that picture of your teammate sleeping on the bus with his/her mouth wide open is the moment when he/she posts an even more embarrassing picture of you during one of your bad moments.
• Be a good teammate - don't do it.
• Also, don't post images that could get you arrested, expelled from school, kicked off of your team, ignored by college recruiters.

Guest Authored By Tanya Mendoza. Tanya is a Journalist at Fox 5, Atlanta, GA. Follow Tanya on Twitter.

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“Being smart on social media may seem like a no-brainer to many, but every now and then we all need a reminder of smart choices when posting, sharing, tweeting and snapping.."

For more information on Reggie Roberts email him here.

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  Authored by:

  Fred Hansen Pied Piper of Social Media Marketing at YourWorldBrand.com & CEO of Millennium 7 Publishing Co. in Loveland, Colorado. I work deep in the trenches of social media strategy, community management and trends.  My interests include; online business educator, social media marketing, new marketing technology, skiing, hunting, fishing and The Rolling Stones..-Not necessarily in that order ;)

Marine Corps Social Media?

The Marines Updated Its Social Media Policy After A Nude Photo Scandal - After some Marines posted revenge porn and obscene comments about fellow service members on Facebook, the commandant of the Marine Corps wanted to make clear that online activities can have consequences..

The Marine Corps has updated its social media policy after a report revealed hundreds of active and retired service members may have been involved in trading revenge porn and making sexual comments about fellow service members in a Facebook group.

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Marines United had around 30,000 members at the time it was taken down, and group members'activities have prompted multiple investigations within the military. Marine Corps commandant Gen. Robert Neller has promised accountability, and on Friday, he sent a message to Marines on their personal social media use.

In his message, Neller laid out the consequences of posting on social media in a way that violated the corps' values, threatened morale, or hurt operational readiness. Previously, Marines were told their personal social media posts were a reflection on the corps, but the policy didn't specify how questionable posts could lead to court-martial or other discipline.

"Marines are reminded that their conduct, even off-duty or online, may violate Navy and Marine Corps orders and regulations," Neller said.

Public attention to the group's activities has sparked heated debates among veterans and those currently serving.

A number of Marines have answered Neller's call to come forward with any information that could help the investigation, the Wall Street Journal reported. Meanwhile, others have criticized leadership's response as out of character for the famously rough-and-tumble corps.

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In his message, Neller pointed to the sections of the Uniform Code of Military Justice that applied, including prohibitions on disrespect or insubordination toward leadership, cruelty and maltreatment of Marines of lesser rank, conduct unbecoming to an officer, and sexual misconduct.

"Marines who believe they have been subject to inappropriate online conduct and who would like to maintain their privacy are encouraged to report the misconduct to their chaplain or a Victims Legal Counsel," he said.

Neller has previously said he believes all Marines should know that sexual harassment, hazing, and other indecent behavior is against the corps' standards. A task force is also examining what changes may be made to training and policies that could keep misconduct like what's alleged to have happened in Marines United from happening again.

Guest Authored By Claudia Koerner. Claudia is a Reporter for BuzzFeed News and is based in Los Angeles, CA. Follow Claudia on Twitter.

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"Taking peeping tom or other illicit photos of a person is prohibited by the Uniform Code of Military Justice, but no provision specifically bars revenge porn.

Last week, Rep. Jackie Speier of California introduced a bill to close what she describes a loophole. If passed, her legislation would ban sharing sexual photos of a person without that person's consent.."

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  Fred Hansen Pied Piper of Social Media Marketing at GetMoreHere.com & CEO of Millennium 7 Publishing Co. in Loveland, Colorado. I work deep in the trenches of social media strategy, community management and trends.  My interests include; online business educator, social media marketing, new marketing technology, skiing, hunting, fishing and The Rolling Stones..-Not necessarily in that order ;)

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Social Media Business Etiquette?

Social Media & Social Media Etiquette plays a major role in our increasingly connected society. Facebook profiles, Instagram, LinkedIn accounts, and Twitter handles are widespread among students and professionals alike..

Whether you are operating a brick-and-mortar company, or a more tech-heavy start-up such as my company, thoughtfully employing social media can help you increase your visibility, profits, and a number of customers.

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One key is cautiously linking your social media activity to your business plan. How can you do so? Can you drive customers away by over sharing on these platforms? Are we getting too obsessed with numbers?

Here are a few tips to keep in mind if you want to keep your audience engaged and happy

You are what you Share!

People associate companies strongly with their updates & views on different causes & events, Use common sense when you share. What you put out there on the web becomes a representation of you and your business in the social media landscape.

But don’t let this stop you from voicing your opinion on topics that matter & is related to your domain. Before you re-share, make sure you know what you are about to retweet. Unless you know and trust the source, read the content carefully before you hit the share button. The last thing you want to do is take your followers to a spam page with misleading content.

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Post Regularly Without Going Overboard

Posting regularly to your social media page is one of the most important keys to online networking success. However, sometimes it can have a negative influence. Customers are already under relentless assault from thousands of companies every day. They will happily remove any business overloading their feed from their “friends” or “following” list.

Consider The Interest of Your Target Audience

Focusing on the needs and interests of your target audience is significant for all of your marketing strategies including your Internet marketing plans If you are simply posting information on your products/services without asking whether or not your listeners care or has an interest in the content, then you are setting yourself up for online marketing failure.



Always ensure that your posts are appealing and focused on something your audience actually cares about.

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Avoid Spamming at Any Cost

Remember, people don’t use social media to be bombarded by sales pitches. They use it to be social! You won’t build your online network by stuffing your followers’ news feeds with advertisements. You should ensure that your content is 100% original every time since posting the same information many times can result in your page getting flagged by Google for spam and shut-down.

Over-Sharing will do More Harm Than Good

Successful social media stands by the principle that posting frequency isn’t too much or too little, but just right. Constant posting has a damaging effect that can guide to quick unfollows and unsubscribe. With Twitter, you can tweet 6-7 times per day and be fine. On Facebook, aim for 1-2 posts a day, and the same goes for LinkedIn.

Guest Authored By Ricky Makan. Ricky is an SEO consultant based in Sydney, working as a freelancer for businesses in Australia. He also works full-time in a boutique marketing agency Absoltz, which covers the corporate sector and large businesses. Follow Ricky on Twitter.

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"The key is to be fully aware & conscious of your posting schedule.

Space out posts for optimal reach and minimal follower pestering.."

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  Authored by:

  Fred Hansen Pied Piper of Social Media Marketing at GetMoreHere.com & CEO of Millennium 7 Publishing Co. in Los Angeles, CA where I work deep in the trenches of social media strategy, community management and trends.  My interests include; online business educator, social media marketing, new marketing technology, skiing, hunting, fishing and The Rolling Stones..-Not necessarily in that order ;)

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